I do occasionally spout off about hating Facebook. But what I really mean by that, is I hate the invasiveness, the Messenger device that send message, supposedly from me to my entire friend and/or contact list, and the heavy-handedness of telling us what we should or shouldn’t believe, like blocking our posts if it isn’t a liberal, progressive, or whatever they ar calling themselves these days, agendized opinion.

That said, there are some really good things about Facebook. I mean, where else can I instantly connect with friends from all of the states I have lived in, and even the countries I have visited.

And, some people are really lonely, so for them, a Happy Birthday, or I’m sorry your dog died, or how cute is that new cat!, or, so you have an adorable grand baby, is really, really important.

I will always be cautious–like I don’t publish my birthday, and yes, no one remembers, but my ID is protected more than if I did publish it.

Please use caution when using any social media. But, also encourage your friends and family. And don’t forget face time with those with whom you can have that old-fashioned satisfaction.